Achamundu Achamundu!

A friend of mine suggested me to see this amazing movie while we were talking about protection for kids. I was scared to see this movie in the beginning because, chumma manasai pottu kuzhapikka vaendamnu thaan. Aerkanavae US la, "Law and Order: Criminal Intent" paarthuttu theruvula poravanga varavangalai ellam paarthu santhaegam varuthu. Irunthaalum antha padathula apadi enna thaan irukkunnu voru curiosity. Padam paathathukappuram avangalukku thanks sollanumnu thonuchu, its such a wonderul film, ellarum paarka vaendiya film, kuripa veli naatula irukaravanga kandippa paarkanum.
Summa solla koodathu, US lifea avlo azhagha director Arun Vaidhiyanathan prethibalichirukaaru. Anga irukara vovoru family kittaeyum poi interview edutha maathiri irukku. Grocery shoppingla irunthu birthday party varaikkum, it's perfect.
Prasanna and Sneha acted so perfectly, definetly I should mention about the little girl, she had done a very good job in the climax. Should appreciate the painter, John Shea, he gave such wonderful expressions in his eyes.
I've seen many houses in US, they have the name of the security system board outside. I don't understand one thing, isn't it a warning for the burglar's to get alert? What if, he catches the owner outside and blackmails him to switch of the security system? Trust me, I've even seen a problem like this in one hollywood movie, "Firewall", starring "Harrison Ford".
Ennai kaetaal I'll give advice to all the alarm systems have a secret code for these kind of black mails, in case if the owner gives that code, it'll be a warning for them and send help immediately. Chumma phone panni," we received a call are u alright?" apadinnu kaetkaama intha code paarthavudanaey prechanainnu purinjukanum, epadi enoda idea?
I will recommend our Sandrabullock's, SING from the movie, "Miss.Congeniality" to every house wife, that is perfect. I know if someone attacks you all of a sudden it's impossible for you to follow all these. Try to remember, the kid in this movie does that.
Athey maathiri cleaning lady, maintenance guy apadinnu veettu keya copy panni kodukarathula enakku vudan paadu illai.
Intha padam ellarukkum voru nalla paadam. Kandippa ellarum paarka vaendiya padam.

A Film by Aravind!

After reading R-ambam's blog on "Dhik..Dhik", I was curious about the film, "A film by Aravind". Epavo, Sun TV, "Thirai Maalai" la paartha gnabagam vanthuchu, apavae antha padathoda climax therinjakanumnu aasai pataen. Naaladaivil athu maranthaey pochu.
R-ambam's blog, marapadiyum athai gnabagathukku kondu vara, en blogil, "A film by Aravind".
Summa solla koodathu, padam attagaasamana thriller. Kadaisi varaikkum paey padama illai Psycho storyaannu theriyama kondu poraanga. Ithu ellathukum maela, aen intha kolai ellam nadakathu, yaar ithai ellam seira apadinnu konjam kooda yugikka mudiyella. It keeps you at the edge of your seat.
"Rishi", ithu namma hero.Engaeyo paartha mugamnu paartha, namma tamilla "Richard" apadingara paerla vanthavaru, Shaliniyoda annan. Nalla nadichirukaaru.
Ellarumae nalla act panni irukaanga.
R-ambam blogil, "athukulla antha culprit, paeyaa... pisaasaa... illa neraiya ponds powder poatutu vantha oru ponnaanu theriyala ,"
Athukkagavae, climax varumbothu, vuthu gavanichaen.
"voraey sirippu"., aaenna antha powder poosina ponnu, "neenga TVla paartha psycho killer naan thaan" apadinnu solluchu. Enavo intha mega serialla nadicha ponnu naan thaan apadinnu introduce pannikara maathiri irunthuthu.
Full padam concentrate panna director climaxla aetho avasara velai vanthutta maathiri avasara avasaramma edutha maathiri irukku.
Mathappadi intha padam voru nalla thriller.

Depression hurts!

One day, my cousin called me and said, "Don't panic, I have a news about our neighbor, she was missing and later they found her dead in the nearby lake, they enquired her husband the reason, he said she was under medication for depression". I was shocked (even though it was a late reaction).Not only this incident I hear a lot about suicides these days, to my surprise, they are all Indians.
People go abroad with great many expectations and when they find out there's nothing spl, of course sight seeing is one major entertainment other than that, you got a lot of work to do, esp.., the one with kids. They are depressed doing the same work everyday, missing their parents and their dear ones.
The main thing that affects them is hearing any good news like weddings or any other functions in our country. They miss everything from India. I know that hurts a lot, especially for housewives, they keep on thinking about it, while doing their chores. My request to their husbands are, whenever you notice your wife getting depressed or any change in activity, before taking her to a doctor, better take a vacation.
Take her to the place where she'll enjoy the most, talk to her while traveling, listen to her. Do this once a month. Every weekend download her favorite movies, even if it bores you, sit with her and ask her the favorite part. Try to play with kid, chat with her in kitchen, and do the dishes not much, but a few glasses or plates just once a week will do. Give her some time for herself.
If she is upset about something, ask her not to do any work including cooking take her out to dinner or order a take out. Talk to her. Encourage her hobbies, even if you feel they are waste of money or stupid, its worth than spending your Doctor's fees. If she doesn't have any hobby, if you know her very well and married for more than a year by now you would've discovered her field of interests. Join her in any class, these days, meditation and yoga are becoming popular in foreign countries (I think they are not expensive); join her in one of those things.
I know it's pretty hard for the partners to follow, since you are all stressed too. You do all your office work, but you atleast have the change of environment in your office. It’s not the same for her. She does the same thing everyday. Try being in home for two days without going out, not talking to anyone and simply watching TV, you'll feel bored too.

For depressed wives, don’t react to your emotions, try to handle them with care. Engage yourself with other things. Try to surf the net, stop saying "I know nothing to look for". Learn new things. I believe every girl has a hobby, try to find your's. You can learn a lot through internet when you are abroad. We are all grown ups, try not to bother your husband much. He is also stressed like you. It doesn’t mean you should conceal your feelings, try to talk to him and make him understand. He won’t listen in the beginning but don’t give up. You can share your feelings through blogs. Even if you are not interested in books, try going to the library everyday, you’ll find new friends.
Break away your shyness and learn new things that you couldn’t do in your country, for example, swimming. I think 25% of the Indian girls don’t know how to swim, because of their shyness.
“Namma vooru ponnunga morathaala puliyai adichu viratanavanga intha depression ellam emmathiram”
Try to follow this for a month. If you are still stressed and depressed, get an appointment with the doctor without delay.